“All I [Rasheed] ask in return, well, it is a simple thing.
I ask that you [Laila] avoid leaving this house without my company. … Oh, I
also ask that when we are out together, that you wear a burqa. For your own
protection, naturally. It is best. So many lewd men in this town now. Such vile
intentions, so eager to dishonor even a married woman. So. That’s all.”
(Hosseini, 200)
This quotation shows that Rasheed is asserting his power of
being a man over Laila. In Afghanistan, women were seen as objects rather than
humans. Rasheed is forcing Laila to wear a burqa and to always be in his
company when she exits the house. Before marrying Rasheed, Laila did not have
to wear a burqa or be accompanied by anybody. The quotation shows the big
transformation that Laila had to undergo once she married Rasheed. She was no
longer a ‘free’ woman. She was at the mercy of Rasheed. He decided what she
could and could not do, and she could do nothing to change that. Once she
married Rasheed, Laila’s personality disappeared. She could no longer express
herself under the burqa, nor could she travel by herself. This quotation serves
to show that females were not considered as humans. They were objects. Laila is
only one example of something that was happening all over Afghanistan.
“Attention Women: You
will stay inside your homes at all times. It is not proper for women to wander
aimlessly about the streets. If you go outside, you must be accompanied by a
male relative. If you are caught alone on the street, you will be beaten and
sent home. You will, under no circumstance, show your face. You will cover with
burqa when outside. If you do not, you will be severely beaten. Cosmetics are forbidden. Jewellery is
forbidden. You will not speak unless spoken to. You will not make eye contact
with men. You will not laugh in public. If you do, you will be beaten.” (Hosseini,
248)
This quotation is an announcement made by the Taliban government
once it came to power in Afghanistan. The Taliban government is making women
powerless. Women can no longer show their faces, laugh in public, or be on the
streets unaccompanied by a male relative. Furthermore, women are being forced
to stay inside unless it is necessary for them to walk on the streets. Women
are at the mercy of their husbands. The guards patrolling the streets are
empowered to harm women without any punishment, because according to Taliban
law, women are the ones at fault. Due to the laws put in place by the Taliban
government, women were isolated from the outside world. They had rare opportunities
to discuss with other women, and were at the command of their husbands. Due to the
laws, women were dominated by what their husbands decided or what the Talibans
decided. Through the laws that were put in place by the Taliban, men could do
horrid things to their wives and get away with them, because women had no power
or rights to do anything about it.
“For me, it ends here. There’s nothing more I want.
Everything I’d ever wished for as a little girl you’ve already given me. You
and your children have made me so very happy. It’s all right, Laila. This is
all right. Don’t be sad.” (Hosseini, 319)
Mariam realizes that she must take the blame for killing
Rasheed, or else everybody will have to suffer. She decides to tell the
authorities of what she has done so that Laila can live an easier life, and not
have to worry about the Taliban coming after her. Mariam is saddened that she
has to turn herself in but she realizes that it is the only way to ensure that
Laila will not be affected by the murder. The quotation also shows that Mariam
and Laila have developed a strong friendship. Although, the two women did not
like each other at first, over time they became good friends. Furthermore, Mariam
is happy that she is able to help Laila raise her children, despite not being
able to have children of her own. The quotation shows that although women had
to endure hardships, they still found small things to be happy about and to cherish.